This educational activity is brought to you by Melissa & Doug, written by our Blog Ambassador Amy Mascott. Spend a little focused playtime with your children, and help develop language as you play!
One of my favorite parts of playing with my kids–aside from spending time with three of the coolest kids I know–is finding ideal moments for sneaking in some learning.
Whether they’re playing with numbers, letters or language, when kids are engaged in an activity with their parents they’re captive audience members.
And the learning can be so sneaky. . . that no one even knows they’re learning.
They’re just playing with their parents, and having a good ol’ time.
Here are two quickie tricks for developing language through play.
1. Stay Away from Baby Talk! Sure, it’s cute when your child says wabbit for rabbit or wa-wa for water, even ba-ba for banana or apa for apple. But it is super-important for parents and caregivers to use the correct words instead of repeating “baby” words.
When we repeat baby talk–even going as far as incorporating those “cute words” into our daily conversations–we’re actually not doing our children any favors. In fact, we’re reinforcing their errors and delaying their actual learning of language.
2. Refrain from Correcting Mistakes. Nothing can shut a person down like an immediate, reflexive correction: “Noooo, it’s NOT apa, it’s APPLE. Listen, AP-PLE. Okay? Let me hear you say it–APPLE.”
So at the time when we’re really trying to encourage our kiddos to take risks, try out new sounds and learn our language, we really want to encourage them to talk without fear. We don’t want to close this important door.
Instead, simply repeat the word correctly. And then move on. “Oh, you want the apple. Here you go. Here is the apple. Now what will you make with the apple? Do you want to cut the apple and make me a snack? I would love an apple to eat along with my sandwich.” Eventually, she’ll get it.
And before we know it, we’ll have confident, language-loving kids! Ready to teach? Start playing!