Have you ever felt so dependent upon and annoyed by technology as you have the past six months? I haven’t hugged my parents (both in their 70s) since the winter, but I laugh with them every weekend over video chat, and I am so grateful for that. I get to see my patients with autism and ADHD through video visits, get to see their homes, dogs, and favorite toys, and I’m grateful for that window into their lives. Technology is amazing in some ways, but in other ways it drives me crazy — like it’s exploiting all of our collective fear and exhaustion, riling our kids up, or not even coming close to the experience of sitting and laughing around the dinner table.
Join Us to Reflect on Kids’ Relationships with Tech
Instead of feeling drowned in screens during the COVID-19 pandemic, let’s use it as an opportunity to really think, reflect, and lay down new routines around technology. In a series of posts this fall, I’ll be talking about how technology design can support us, or mess with us. I’ll use my research experience with kids, parents, and technology to offer ideas about teaching kids to be digitally savvy and kind, and how we as grown-ups can identify misinformation and toxic spaces online. I’ll take the mindset that there’s no perfect way to do this, and we need to be patient with ourselves and our kids. But we also can learn deeply from these transformative experiences, so that we can all thrive in our eventual post-COVID lives.
One of my goals will be to demystify all of the things about technology design that drive our kids’ tech obsessions (or our own), but which are really difficult to understand for non-computer-scientists. Hopefully, I can translate things like data collection, algorithms, and user interface design into terms that make sense for everyday parenting decisions.
This is important to figure out this year. Media and technology are shaping our experiences of reality — the news we read, the health information we get on social media, or observing how others are responding to the stresses of this time. My posts will go beyond the idea of “screen time” and instead involve learning how to use quality tech in positive ways (like for social connection, learning about nature, and history), avoid the endless rabbit holes of shallow or iffy content, and preserve offline experiences that tech just can’t replicate.
I hope you’ll join us! Follow Melissa & Doug on social to see future posts in this series.
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